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Writing Tip of the Week:  S.W.O.T. Your Writing Goals in 2024!

‘Tis the season to reflect on the past year and plan ahead for the new.  When it comes to writing goals, it’s a good idea to have a game plan that gives you some direction about what you’d like to work on in the new year.  It can be anything from writing more each week to writing a novel.

No matter what you want to do, make sure to write it down so you can keep yourself motivated and on track throughout the year.  

One way to reflect and plan is to use a management term known as S.W.O.T. Analysis.  Applying this concept to writing will give you the opportunity to examine the Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats that can help make you a stronger writer going forward.  

Let’s talk about each one!

Writing Strengths

Where do you feel you excel as a writer?  What areas of the writing process really make you excited and ready to jump in and get started?  Reflecting on your writing strengths is a great way to show yourself the skills and talents you bring to your writing.  You can also see how you’ve more than likely improved over time and acquired new skills that have aided in making your writing stronger.  

Your strengths could also be your editing abilities, writing clear and concise synopses or blurbs, or even drafting strong outlines for your stories.  If it’s related to writing and you feel like you’ve got a handle on it, add it to the list.

Writing Weaknesses

We all have areas of the writing process we need to improve upon, and this is where to reflect on those.  This is no time for a pity party, however.  This is the time to understand and accept that these areas need your attention and work to make them stronger.  

For example, one of my weaknesses is writing blurbs and synopses for my novels.  So, this coming year, I’m going to focus on getting better at writing those and being more concise in my writing.  

As you focus your attention on these weaker areas and actively work to improve them, you’ll find that your writing as a whole will also be elevated and better.

Writing Opportunities

Look for more ways to fit writing into your schedule.  It’s amazing how much free time most of us have, and it gets eaten away by watching TV or scrolling on our phones.  

Decide this year to write for an hour or more a day instead of watching something or doomscrolling the news.  It’s a much more productive use of your time, and you’ll feel better afterward.

If you seek out the time to write, you will find the time to write.

Also, look for ways to share your writing with others, enter writing contests, or publish your work.  These can be great motivators to get projects done and help you experience the writing process from beginning to end.

Writing Threats

What things might be preventing you from writing?  They can be internal or external, but identifying them is a good step toward eliminating them.  It might be your own fears about writing or a fear of feedback from others.  These fears can threaten your ability to write and stop you before you start.

Once way to push past the threat is to write through the threat.  Have a journal.  Every time you feel that fear or other negative force that’s preventing you from writing loom over you, write about it.  Why does it exist?  What strategies can you use to push past it and start writing?  Could you write a short story where you battle the threat that’s preventing you from writing?  

Whenever a threat pops up that prevents you from being creative, identify it, work through it, and move forward.  Don’t allow yourself or others to prevent you from writing.

Final Thoughts

By identifying your writing Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats and making clear writing goals for the new year, you can help yourself develop into a stronger and more consistent writer.

Happy Goal-Setting and I’ll see you next time!

Writing Motivation Mondays: The Tao of Creativity, Part Four

Hello!  I’m back with another entry in my Tao of Creativity series, based on quotes from The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff.  This week, we’ll explore turning weaknesses into strengths and transforming negative emotions into positive ones.

Let’s get started!

Know Thyself

“When you know and respect your own Inner Nature, you know where you belong.”  (41)

Knowing your strengths as an artist can go a long way to helping you continue on a project, even when aspects of what you’re working on get tough.  Challenges during the creative process are inevitable, and it’s during these times that you often discover your weaknesses.  This is a good thing.  It’s important to realize and understand your weak points as an artist and not ignore these factors.  The only way to improve and get better is by working on your weaknesses and elevating them to a stronger level of expertise.

If you’ve ever been working on a creative project and gotten a gut feeling that something isn’t working, that’s your Inner Nature alerting you to a potential issue that should be addressed.  It’s important to listen to this voice and look into the issue it’s telling you about.  Respecting your Inner Nature can go a long way to ensuring what you’re working on is the best it can be from start to finish.  

“Once you face and understand your limitations, you can work with them, instead of having them work against you and get in your way, which is what they do when you ignore them, whether you realize it or not.  And then you can find that, in many cases, your limitations can be your strengths.” (48)

Knowing your limitations and understanding the why behind them is a great step toward becoming more self-aware as an artist.  We all have our own individual strengths and weaknesses, and understanding both is like studying and understanding both sides of a coin.  It’s easy for us to rely on our strengths because those give us confidence in our abilities as an artist.  But what if we took a closer look at our weaknesses and developed ways of making them strengths instead of roadblocks?

Being overly critical of yourself and your work can be seen as a weakness and a limitation, but what if you were able to quiet that inner critic and use it at the right time during the process instead of the wrong time?  This critical voice is perfect for the editing phase of a writing project, allowing you to fine-tune and hone your work by taking your brain out of the creative realm and into the technical areas of story continuity, grammar, and spelling.

Now, you’ve redirected what was once seen as a limitation and turned it into a positive force that can help your writing and be stronger during the final phases of the process.

Think about what areas of your creative process you feel are limiting or weaknesses.  How can you harness those areas and make them work for you instead of against you in the long run?

Transforming Negativity

“[I]nstead of struggling to erase what are referred to as negative emotions, we can learn to use them in positive ways.” (59)

What’s holding you back from creating?  What prevents you from fully embracing the creative process and diving in head-first?

Fear comes to mind when I look at these questions.  Most people who desire to be creative but don’t take the steps to do so are afraid of internal and external negative forces that could react against them and their work if they decide to do what they want.  This is totally understandable, especially since we live in a world filled with negativity, hate, and pessimism; why would you want to put something out there for these angry, embittered jackals to consume?

So, don’t do it for them.  Do it for you.  Create because you want to create.  Create because you have a passion and a desire to create.  Create to make yourself and your world better.  

Take that fear and turn it into excitement.  

“So rather than work against ourselves, all we need to do in many cases is to point our weaknesses or unpleasant tendencies in a different direction than we have been.” (59)

I saw a video from motivational speaker Mel Robbins on YouTube that addresses this concept.  Check it out below:

So, the next time you want to be creative and feel negativity creeping in, try Mel Robbins’s trick and see if you can flip the switch and turn those negative feelings into positive, productive ones.

Final Thoughts

“The first thing we need to do is recognize and trust our own Inner Nature, and not lose sight of it.” (65)

If you have the passion to create, trust the process.  It sounds basic, but it’s true.  All creativity and artistic endeavors begin at different places for each artist.  Give yourself permission to jump in, play with your ideas, and see what happens.

More often than not, we do allow fear to prevent us from even starting.  Turn that fear into excitement and get your creative process into high gear.  You’ll be amazed at what you can do when you allow yourself to enjoy and have fun.

Happy Creating, and I’ll see you next week!

Writing Motivation Mondays: Planning Ahead for 2024

I’m taking a little break from the Tao of Creativity series this week to discuss writing goals in 2024.  It’s less than a month away, so this is a great time to reflect on what you accomplished this past year and what you want to accomplish over the next twelve months.

How Was Your 2023?

Did you have any writing or creative goals this past year?  If you did, how much did you complete on the list?  This can be as simple as writing an outline, a first draft, or publishing a novel.  Even small writing victories are worth noting and celebrating!

Were there projects you started but didn’t finish?  Were there ideas you planned to develop that didn’t go anywhere?  That’s perfectly fine.  Life can often hinder our creative goals, so it’s important not to get down on ourselves or give up.  After all, it’s just one year in a string of many, and the next one is just around the corner!

New to Writing Goals?

If you’re new to creating writing goals, don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself by planning to write the Great American Novel.  Start small.  Write a short story.  Write a poem or two.  Maybe just plan to journal daily.  

The key is to write, write some more, and keep writing.  Try to make writing a habit in your daily routine.  If you are writing for yourself and for fun, it should be an energizing activity that you look forward to.  If you’re not enjoying your work, change course and start something new and different.  Eventually, you’ll come across a story idea that clicks, and the words will flow.

Another Year, Another Set of Goals

I’m in this category.  While I don’t always hit every goal on my list, I do try to complete at least one writing project, either as a full draft or a completed manuscript.  It’s easy to become too ambitious at the start of the year and have to adjust accordingly if needed.

That’s perfectly fine, too.  For example, I planned to write two novels this year, but I decided halfway through the year to focus on creating a new author’s website.  That took up much of my time (I had to write a lot of content), so I published one novel this year and launched my new website.  The second book is on my 2024 Writing Goals list.  

Any Writing is Better Than No Writing

Don’t be afraid to be ambitious and make lofty goals.  At the same time, don’t let yourself become overwhelmed and stop writing because it feels like too much to work on.  Always keep in mind that writing should be an enjoyable and fun activity.  You’re creating!  It’s an adventure!  Get excited!

Yes, you’ll have days that you don’t feel like writing, and that’s okay.  The important thing is that you go back to it and keep going.  In the end, you may not reach all your planned writing goals, but you will have written.  And writing only helps make you a stronger writer in the long run.

Final Thoughts

A new year brings new resolutions and goals.  It’s helpful to reflect on what we did and didn’t accomplish the previous year and challenge ourselves in the upcoming one.  Whether you are new to writing or have done it for a while, give yourself goals that challenge you and make you want to sit down and write.  As I said before, any writing is better than no writing.

Happy Writing and Planning, and I’ll be back with The Tao of Creativity series next week! 

Writing Motivation Mondays: The Tao of Creativity, Part Three

We all have a desire to learn new things.  It’s in our nature to seek out new information, to find out how things work, and to learn the process used to create works of art.  Often, we can get trapped in a cycle of learning about something we want to do instead of actually doing it, which ties into our Tao of Pooh topic for today: Knowledge versus Experience.

In this post, I’ll be using cooking as the primary example for each point.

It’s Harder Than It Looks…At First

“[S]ometimes the knowledge of the scholar is a bit hard to understand because it doesn’t seem to match up with our own experience of things” (29).

It’s easy for us to see an expert like Julia Child and be perplexed about how easy she makes cooking seem.  We don’t see the thousands of hours Child took to make her craft appear effortless before the cameras.  

When we start out on a new endeavor, a part of us believes that we will achieve expert status as soon as we dive in, which is almost never the case.  We can become frustrated by this notion; we should be able to cook as well as Julia, she makes it seem so easy.  But her years of experience and many failed attempts have made her the expert and cooking legend she has become.

Over time, you can achieve expert status in whatever you’re hoping to achieve.  The key is to release yourself from the disillusionment of perfectionism and allow for trial and error, failure, and less-than-stellar moments to occur.  From those moments, you gain insight.  Insight produces hands-on knowledge.  And that hands-on knowledge gives you the expertise you need to become a master of your chosen craft.

Book Smart or Street Smart?

“Knowledge and Experience do not necessarily speak the same language” (29).

Being interested in a topic inevitably leads us to want to learn more about it.  We can do this by reading books, articles, blog posts, or watching YouTube videos.  No matter what your interest, you can find information about it.  The more you learn, the more you either become excited about it or realize you were just curious in the moment.

Let’s say you are fascinated by the art of cooking, and you begin to read about it, watch videos about it, and binge every Food Network series you can find to learn everything you can about cooking.  You’ve read Julia Child’s books cover-to-cover, but there’s one thing you haven’t done: cooked anything.

Knowledge of cooking, whether it’s terminology, recipes, food facts, etc., doesn’t make you an expert chef.  Watching thousands of hours of Food Network shows and reading cookbooks won’t make you any better at cooking a delicious meal.  

What does matter is your experience with cooking.  Taking the time, the effort, the patience, and the action of doing it for yourself.

The quote speaks to this since knowing about something doesn’t equally translate into the experience of actually doing it.  Reading and knowing how to prepare the 7-course meal is a far cry from the experience of making it yourself.  

Time to Get Your Hands Dirty!

“But isn’t the knowledge that comes from experience more valuable than the knowledge that doesn’t?” (29).

The very thought of getting off the couch and instead of watching people cook, actually cooking, can be a scary concept for many.  After all, what if you aren’t perfect that first time?  What if what you made is burnt?  Or undercooked?  Or it tastes too salty?  

Watching experts at a craft can be intimidating.  But what we’re seeing is the outcome from years and decades of experience, trial and error, failures and successes.  It’s important to keep that in mind as you watch masters of their craft engage in what they do.  They weren’t always at this level of culinary expertise.  They weren’t always ready to cook in front of the camera.  They started at level zero and worked their way up the expertise elevator.

You can, too.  Think about it.  If Julia Child had only read about French cooking instead of going through the experience to learn how to do it, would we know her name all these decades later?  I would say no, we wouldn’t.  But because she applied what she did learn and had the experience of cooking French food, we do. 

And as I said before, I guarantee that Julia Child experienced many setbacks and failures along the way in her cooking career. But she persisted.  She used those failures as part of the experience and moved forward, not looking back and wallowing in self-pity or frustration over a burnt souffle or a poorly made dish.  

As you actively pursue cooking, you’ll notice something about the process and about your skills: it gets easier.  True, challenges will always pop up, but you’ll have hands-on experience to rely on that will help you become a better chef in the long run.  Sitting and watching won’t achieve that goal; in fact, it only prevents you from reaching your ultimate goal of knowing how to cook.

Final Thoughts

We all have a creative interest in our lives that we either wish to pursue or have and run away from after a failed attempt.  Maybe you’re fascinated by sculpting and read dozens of books about it.  You are a human library about the sculpting process, famous sculptors, and the art form’s history.  So, what’s stopping you from getting some clay and trying your hand at it?

The next time you pick up another book about something you want to do, think about how you can actually pursue your dream of actively doing it.  You’ll never know how great you can be at something until you actually try it for yourself!

Happy Creating, and I’ll see you next week!